Sometimes when we feel hurt, all we can do is wallow about it and drown in our emotions. It can be an overwhelming feeling and all we can think about is how hurt we are and how the people/event have hurt us deeply. But time heals everything. Though it leaves a scar, it is not the end of the world. We still have the rest of our lives before us to live and move forward, to change for the better, and become stronger.
But the thing that overwhelms most people aside from the hurt they feel is getting revenge. They want justice served and to hurt the other party to the same degree they felt. Revenge can be a dangerous thing and it will consume you. However, if you were not the one hurt, how can you blame the one you've hurt from wanting revenge? I am one for justice and equality and I believe that people who hurt should get hurt. But sometimes wanting revenge and letting the other party get served can be consuming and you can't focus on anything else other than getting the revenge you want. But I am also a believer of karma. If you hurt other people, one day you will get hurt, too, and it will be worse than what you did.
If you're hurt, wallow a little.
If you're hurt, think before you act.
If you're hurt, realize that you have a great life ahead of you and that you deserve to be happy.
And then, move forward.
Headband: SM Department Store | Lace Top, Bangles, and Ring: Forever 21 | Necklace: Ebay
Shorts: Jellybean | Wedges: S.O. Fab!
Have a great day! :)