Wednesday, June 05, 2013

Short Post: Moving Forward

Sometimes when we feel hurt, all we can do is wallow about it and drown in our emotions. It can be an overwhelming feeling and all we can think about is how hurt we are and how the people/event have hurt us deeply. But time heals everything. Though it leaves a scar, it is not the end of the world. We still have the rest of our lives before us to live and move forward, to change for the better, and become stronger.

But the thing that overwhelms most people aside from the hurt they feel is getting revenge. They want justice served and to hurt the other party to the same degree they felt. Revenge can be a dangerous thing and it will consume you. However, if you were not the one hurt, how can you blame the one you've hurt from wanting revenge? I am one for justice and equality and I believe that people who hurt should get hurt. But sometimes wanting revenge and letting the other party get served can be consuming and you can't focus on anything else other than getting the revenge you want. But I am also a believer of karma. If you hurt other people, one day you will get hurt, too, and it will be worse than what you did. 



If you're hurt, wallow a little.
If you're hurt, think before you act.
If you're hurt, realize that you have a great life ahead of you and that you deserve to be happy.
And then, move forward.







Headband: SM Department Store | Lace Top, Bangles, and Ring: Forever 21 | Necklace: Ebay
Shorts: Jellybean | Wedges: S.O. Fab!

Have a great day! :)

29 comments :

  1. Nice post, very true words!
    And cute shorts!^^
    xxx
    S

    http://s-fashion-avenue.blogspot.it

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  2. Sweetie, I totally agree with you, sometimes when we get hurt we wanna revenge that's so true but sure the law of karma is sure banker it bloody works. The other day i watched the bbc news when a pick pocket was struggling with a woman's bag ''funny'' right at the bus-stop. Suddenly, unkown to him the bus transport was coming behind, he got smashed while struggling with the woman's bag. I watched it on news OMG!!! It was hell funny but i felt a little pity for him. That is what i call judgement day!!!
    By the way sweetie you look so chic, lovely outfit!

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    1. I totally agree. Sometimes, you just never know when Karma will occur. It just happens - like really fast and you get what you deserve.

      Thank you!

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  3. Great shorts! You look really amazing! : )

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  4. I don't know what's the story behind this post but this is a meaningful one. I hope it's get better :) being hurt helps us to be stronger :)


    By the way, I've been reading your blog for so long and I would really appreciate if you visit my blog, and if you like it, I'd be so overwhelmed that you'd follow me too :)
    MISS CIELO

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    1. It is a long and old story. It's just sometimes ghost/s from the past keep haunting you and it's just tiring.

      And I just followed you.

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  5. Love those shorts!!! Such a cute outfit :)
    xoxo

    novelstyle.blogspot.com

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  6. I love your outfit, I love so much your short and you look lovely!

    www.ladyparisienne.blogspot.fr

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    1. Thank you! I love these shorts, too.

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  7. You look fabulous, my dear.

    Have a Lovely Weekend,

    Nicole

    www.nicoleta.me

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  8. Such cute shorts and love the pink wedges. Super adorable outfit !
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  9. This post has just reminded me how numb I have been these past few months. Been through a lot but it never shows. Friend once told me I'm having emotional leprosy na daw because I let things go easily and I never let it get into me. Good thing is I just move on and continue on with my life... Bad side of it is I never learn. Oh geez, I never do. It's easy to say that I could just change how I do things to avoid being into those messy situations but when it's already right in front of you, it's just hard to resist. Damn.

    Just realized, I've poured out too many emotions here in this comment. I love reading your posts and how I can relate to most of 'em. Glad I'm following your blog.

    BTW, love the comfy feel of your outfit and your wedges are so cute! <3


    xoxo,
    Gelleesh.com

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    1. I don't think it is about being numb. It is just that you know how to filter your emotions and you know that drowning in the moment won't do you any good. I really am glad that you see some point to my writings. I actually like that you open up in my comments. It allows me to get to know people, too. I hope you never tire of reading and commenting. :)

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  10. very cute little shorts !

    http://afrogenik.blogspot.co.uk/

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