Sometimes, it is very difficult to make a decision on your own. You have to consider so many things: what benefits will it give you; what are the implications of your actions; will it give you better results; and so much more.
I am already 25 years old and supposedly, I can make decisions on my own and stand firm by it. Unfortunately, I am the type of person who can’t make big decisions. I am afraid of getting disappointed. I am afraid to make mistakes. I admit that when thinking about the pros and cons, I tend to overlook certain factors, which is why I need advice from other people. I am one who wants to consider all possible outcomes before I can make a decision.
While there is something positive with considering the opinion of other people, there is also something negative about it. It is good that you see another side of things so you can make better judgement. But on the other hand, it makes you dependent. You have to depend on other people to make decisions. You have to depend on their opinion before you can decide for yourself.
This is your life. You should be able to handle your own matters. You should be able to take charge and direct where you want to take your life, not other people. You shouldn’t allow the opinion of other people to take control of your life. This is yours and yours to take control.
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Have a lovely Thursday! :)