Thursday, February 27, 2014

Short Post: Decisions

Sometimes, it is very difficult to make a decision on your own. You have to consider so many things: what benefits will it give you; what are the implications of your actions; will it give you better results; and so much more.

I am already 25 years old and supposedly, I can make decisions on my own and stand firm by it. Unfortunately, I am the type of person who can’t make big decisions. I am afraid of getting disappointed. I am afraid to make mistakes. I admit that when thinking about the pros and cons, I tend to overlook certain factors, which is why I need advice from other people. I am one who wants to consider all possible outcomes before I can make a decision.

While there is something positive with considering the opinion of other people, there is also something negative about it. It is good that you see another side of things so you can make better judgement. But on the other hand, it makes you dependent. You have to depend on other people to make decisions. You have to depend on their opinion before you can decide for yourself.
This is your life. You should be able to handle your own matters. You should be able to take charge and direct where you want to take your life, not other people. You shouldn’t allow the opinion of other people to take control of your life. This is yours and yours to take control.



Bowler hat: SM Department Stores | Top and Necklace: American Eagle Outfitters 
Watch: Paul Frank | Clutch: Nine West | Oxfords: Chocolate Schu Bar
Have a lovely Thursday! :)

27 comments :

  1. I think when you ask the right and positive person, it's the right thing to do. But it's all come back to you when making up the decision. Hope you'll make the best decision :D

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  2. Cool look!
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  3. There's nothing wrong with asking people about certain things. Especially in decision making. Your family may be the best to ask for this and some good, long time friends. :)
    Loving your top! Do they call that bat wing something? Hahaha fashion noob here.


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  4. Ultimately it ends up being what YOU think! Everyone will have an opinion. Ask too many, and you become even more confused. LOL LOVE your tee! That is too cute.
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  5. I liked your hat) Very cute outfit) and if you try to replace the clutch on a backpack?

    mary-tur,ru

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  6. Hi Jenn, in some way I get you since I am a bit as you, but you know what I learned, that you get to be too much influenced by other and do not decide what is best for you, there could be someone who dont always give the right advice :) Just take the risk and do what first your head say. You look cute, I like the tee and the hat! Kisses! xo

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  7. cute look dear!
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  8. deciding is hard but sometimes we have to make a priority of our own. anw love your sweater's writing :)

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  9. great outfit, the head is nice ;)

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  11. nice outfit, sissy... i really adore your writing skills, you're such a good writer! :)

    It’s a GIRL Thing

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  12. nice outfit.
    i like your hair color. may i know what color is it?

    xx
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  13. Cool chic! Like the shirt.

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  14. Amazing outfit !!

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  15. I'm honestly not the person who knows how to give good advice. Heck, I can't even make the best decisions for myself sometimes, and I end up making wrong ones. But that being said, I also don't let other people control how I live my life. I prefer making mistakes and learning from them than following someone else blindly. Just my two cents' worth :)

    Have a good week!

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  16. love the graphic top and bright skirt! cute!

    xoxo hobovogue ღ

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  17. my type of simple shoes :)

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  18. Cute Outfit! Love the Hat ,you look amazing!

    kisses

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  19. Great top dear :D

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  20. Love the print on your shirt: COME AS YOU ARE :)

    The recent incidents in my life is a result of one of the biggest decisions I have made in my life. I chose the path with the most adversity but has been crafting me to be a better individual than to stay in my comfort zone wait for my expiration date. Haha! I live away from my parents now, I work away from where they are, I have bigger responsibilities and although I miss them, because I only get to see them on weekends, I believe that the decision I did has been helping me in preparation for a bigger future God has in store for me.


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  21. Your tee <3
    Lovely style sweetie :)

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  22. i love this look dear !
    xoxo

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